Community Spotlight: Phoenix Destiny
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Community Spotlight: Phoenix Destiny

As a self-described Freedom Doula, Phoenix is a spiritual steward for others, helping us all move toward personal freedom and collective liberation.

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End of Life Conversations Podcast
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End of Life Conversations Podcast

End of Life Conversations is a podcast hosted by the Reverend Mother Annalouiza Armendariz and Reverend Wakil David Matthews. It was my first time being on a podcast and I had a blast! Enjoy <3

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The Role of Comfort at the End-of-Life
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The Role of Comfort at the End-of-Life

Often after any loss, but especially after a death, society ignores and underestimates the importance of comfort . . . from fatigue to difficulty thinking clearly to our nervous systems getting stuck in a sympathetic or parasympathetic loop - grieving, and not having the space to grieve, hurts.

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The 2024 Intentionalist Awards
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The 2024 Intentionalist Awards

Over 400 small businesses were nominated for the awards this year so my little deathcare practice becoming a finalist is an affirmation that I really needed. Thank you!

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Grieving in Community
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Grieving in Community

In Western culture, we are expected to grieve quietly, quickly and, most painfully of all, alone. But when we come together, not to achieve anything, not to fix anything but just to be together as we mourn, healing has a chance to create something new.

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It’s All in the Urn
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It’s All in the Urn

Did you know that ashes can be stored in pretty much anything? The choice of what holds cremains is entirely up to you.

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Celebrating You at the End-of-Life
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Celebrating You at the End-of-Life

People often mistakenly think that planning ahead for your death is morbid. In reality, though, contemplating death is a chance to honor what you treasure about your life.

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