
Community Spotlight: Phoenix Destiny
As a self-described Freedom Doula, Phoenix is a spiritual steward for others, helping us all move toward personal freedom and collective liberation.
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End of Life Conversations Podcast
End of Life Conversations is a podcast hosted by the Reverend Mother Annalouiza Armendariz and Reverend Wakil David Matthews. It was my first time being on a podcast and I had a blast! Enjoy <3

The Role of Comfort at the End-of-Life
Often after any loss, but especially after a death, society ignores and underestimates the importance of comfort . . . from fatigue to difficulty thinking clearly to our nervous systems getting stuck in a sympathetic or parasympathetic loop - grieving, and not having the space to grieve, hurts.

Ask a Deathworker: What if they don’t want to talk about death?
These conversations are hard and sometimes so contentious that people give up and don’t have them. Please don’t give up!

The 2024 Intentionalist Awards
Over 400 small businesses were nominated for the awards this year so my little deathcare practice becoming a finalist is an affirmation that I really needed. Thank you!

Grief from Afar: Identity Loss and Ambigious Grief as a Pasifika Immigrant
Immigrants know identity loss and ambiguous grief intimately well.
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Grieving in Community
In Western culture, we are expected to grieve quietly, quickly and, most painfully of all, alone. But when we come together, not to achieve anything, not to fix anything but just to be together as we mourn, healing has a chance to create something new.
Photo Credit: Neshia Alaovae

It’s All in the Urn
Did you know that ashes can be stored in pretty much anything? The choice of what holds cremains is entirely up to you.
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Ask a Deathworker: Can you tell me more about water cremation?
If you enjoy long, warm baths and care about minimizing your carbon footprint, water cremation may be just right for you.

Community Spotlight: Return Home Funeral Home
Return Home is a green funeral home in Auburn, WA, that serves people wanting to choose natural organic reduction, also known as human composting. Photo credit: Return Home

Final Rest: Your Choices for what Happens to Your Body After Death
Final disposition is the fancy term used for what happens to a body after someone dies - and in Washington we have six options.

Celebrating You at the End-of-Life
People often mistakenly think that planning ahead for your death is morbid. In reality, though, contemplating death is a chance to honor what you treasure about your life.

Community Spotlight: Resting Waters Pet Funeral Home
For many people, the loss of a pet is just as impactful, if not more devastating, than the death of a human.
(Photo credit: Neshia Alaovae)

Welcome to A Thoughtful Death
Afio mai. I’m Neshia, an End-of-Life Consultant.
(Photo Credit: Steven Zhang)